I love the smell of my pussy...and other things you probably wouldn't say in public

Every now and then, a little something pops up in my mind about my sexuality, and I want so much to share it with someone. Problem is, who? Today's answer is: you.

If you're mildly curious about the random things I wish I could blurt out to the world, read on.

I love the smell of my pussy

There it is. The juicy, ripe, everything of it. And it's true - I love the smell of my pussy. Especially when I'm ovulating.

I look at those intimate washes and how they advertise 'everyday odour control' and think... Really? Do other women dislike their aroma?

I dunno. I like it. I imagine someone with their nose all up in it, sniffing it and tasting it like a ripe and juicy fruit.

Yum.

Multiple orgasms are one of the great privileges of being a woman

I mean. We know this. But do we take the time to really appreciate it? Not nearly enough.

Like, does anyone else just lie there after an afternoon of self (or mutual) pleasure, and just bask in the joy that you can just go get another one? And another? There is no end. You can soak in your own pleasure all day (and I have).

I encourage all women to schedule as many self-pleasure days into their calendars as possible. At least once a month (though every weekend is better).

Coconut oil, candles, a little music and some toys, and you're all set.

Anyone ever get turned on when they poo?

This is not two girls and a cup, people. I don't mean I have any interest in the poo (though if you do, there's a place for you - Google two girls and a cup).

But what it makes me realise is that...maybe anal sex isn't so bad. I mean, it's right there, next to my vaginal canal. It makes sense that a bit of pressure would rub me up a little in a way that feels good.

It was having this experience that first opened me up to the idea of exploring anal play for my own pleasure - something I'll share more about soon.

In conclusion: it's a good day for sex

Lol. I mean, it is. But I think the point is more just - we make such a big deal out of sex. Attach it to so many other things that it becomes less about fun and pleasure and more about validation as a good and acceptable human.

God, it's exhausting. Aren't you exhausted by making pleasure so conditional on everything else?

So, instead, I say today is a good day for sex. Because pleasure is natural and fun and innocent and free, and yes, even if it means that I'm turned on when I poo.

I hope you are, too. 😉

Have a sexy day.